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NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES

No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.

In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.

In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:

→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage

→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades

→How to set and communicate realistic expectations

→What to do if your spouse just won’t change

→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good

Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.

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A Morning Routine for a Connected Marriage | #MarriageMonday

A Morning Routine for a Connected Marriage | #MarriageMonday

In the past, we have shared about some shifts we have made to our evening routine to feel better connected in our marriage. We thought it's about time we talk about better connecting in the morning as well! The mornings are such an important part of the day for...

A Day In The Life of a Marriage Intensive | #MarriageMonday

A Day In The Life of a Marriage Intensive | #MarriageMonday

Jill: One of our favorite ways to support marriages is through our Marriage 2.0 Intensives. Whether a couple is in crisis or not, these intensives move good marriages to become great and hurting marriages to find the hope and help they need. They are hosted at our...

4 Intimacy Builders for Your Marriage | #MarriageMonday

4 Intimacy Builders for Your Marriage | #MarriageMonday

For this #MarriageMonday, we're sharing an adapted excerpt of Is There Really Sex After Kids? In the midst of diapers, dishes, and soccer games, how do we find emotional oneness? How do we deepen our intimacy level outside the bedroom? Intimacy builders help us...

How Healthy Was Your “Home Internship?” | #MarriageMonday

How Healthy Was Your “Home Internship?” | #MarriageMonday

Once we get married, it’s important that we continue to grow emotionally, as that will strengthen our ability to relate to our partner. Today’s #MarriageMonday is about evaluating your past in order to have a great future. Mark: Have you ever done an internship in...

5 Threats to Connection in Your Marriage | #MarriageMonday

5 Threats to Connection in Your Marriage | #MarriageMonday

Feeling connected in a marriage is essential. However, there are many threats that can undermine this connection and lead to a feeling of distance. In today's #MarriageMonday, we're exploring five of the main reasons couples lose that feeling of connection....

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How To Reduce Conflict In Your Marriage | Episode 206

How To Reduce Conflict In Your Marriage | Episode 206

I have my hubby, Mark, with me this week for a conversation on conflict in marriage. Now, conflict is inevitable when you live in close quarters with someone, but even more so when you merge lives together! How you...

The Essentials of Affair Recovery | Episode 141

The Essentials of Affair Recovery | Episode 141

Our marriage went off the tracks in 2011, when Mark was in a full-on midlife crisis, affair included. It would take us two years to move from being on the verge of divorce to a healed and improved Mark & Jill 2.0. I...

The Elements of Transformation | Episode 197

The Elements of Transformation | Episode 197

Mark is back with me on the podcast today to help answer a question we hear often: “What makes the difference in people who are able to overcome difficult things?" This could be in regard to marriages that are restored or...

Becoming Unoffendable with Brant Hansen | Episode 196

Becoming Unoffendable with Brant Hansen | Episode 196

What do you do when you are offended? Do you quickly let it go, or do you sit and ruminate on it? If you, like most people, tend to do the latter, it can create bitterness, resentment, and pent-up anger in your life and in...

The Power of Our Words | Episode 191

The Power of Our Words | Episode 191

I’m happy to have my husband join me for this episode! It’s been a little while since Mark and I shared a conversation on the podcast, and today we’re talking about the power of our words. If we fully realized just how...

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Having a coach is like having a personal trainer. Instead of working on body goals, you’ll set and meet life or career goals. If you feel overwhelmed with life, marriage, building a platform, speaking, or writing, Jill knows the path and she can guide you to success!

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