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NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES
No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.
In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.
In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:
→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage
→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades
→How to set and communicate realistic expectations
→What to do if your spouse just won’t change
→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good
Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.
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ARTICLEs
#MarriageMonday | 6 Tips for Connecting with Your Spouse in 2026
Happy New Year! Did you make any resolutions for 2026? Here at the Savage household, we've had our successes and failures with these kinds of goals, and we've learned a valuable lesson over the years: When we set big, pie-in-the-sky goals without a clear roadmap for...
#MarriageMonday | 3 Tools We Teach Every Day as Marriage Coaches
As of January 2026, we will have been marriage coaches for 9 years. One of our favorite parts about this work is that the tools we teach our clients have been shaped from and refined by our real experiences. Many of them are strategies that helped us transform our own...
#MarriageMonday | 6 Intimacy Inhibitors that Could Be Impacting Your Sex Life
Everyone has emotional and relational baggage. We carry it around with us everywhere and bring it with us into marriage. While there’s no shame in having baggage, it’s important to take the time to consider how the behaviors we’ve picked up over the years could be...
#MarriageMonday | 5 Prayers for Your Husband
Prayer is such a powerful work. When it comes to your marriage, standing in the gap for your husband through prayer is one of the most important things you’ll ever do. Whether your marriage is on the rocks, smooth sailing, or somewhere in between, I can’t encourage...
#MarriageMonday | Why Choosing Acceptance Over Expectations Opens the Door to Growth
How come I’m always the one planning what we do for date night? They never initiate deep conversation. They said they were sorry, but they aren’t improving. They never help out enough around the house. Things just don’t seem to be getting any better… Do any of these...
5 Ways to Help Another Couple in Their Marriage | #MarriageMonday
Marriage is hard work! As we like to say, we’ve been married for 42 years—32 of them happily. Throughout that time, we’ve been through quite a few highs and lows, each and every one of which taught us something. One of the reasons we started coaching other...
Podcast
Untangling Anger from Your Life | Episode 294
We had a record number of Marriage Intensives at the beginning of this year! For each intensive, we host a couple at our home for a whole weekend so that we can give them our...
Why a Business Leader Mindset is Hurting Your Marriage with Lantz Howard | Episode 293
In the business world, the ones who make it to the top are often high-achieving, ruthless, and confident. They're calculated risk-takers. All of these characteristics can help...
3 Things That Get Confused for Forgiveness with Tim Tedder | Episode 288
Forgiveness. It’s one of the most powerful tools God gives us in marriage. Yet, when infidelity shatters trust, the path forward can feel confusing. What does real forgiveness...
The Healing Journey of Marriage After Betrayal with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith | Episode 287
The chaos that betrayal can cause in a marriage is unlike anything else we experience as humans. When trust is shattered, everything feels unstable. Questions swirl. Emotions run...
Facing the Fear of Vulnerability | Episode 285
https://youtu.be/t6qmVO6apzo *Note from Mark and Jill: We’re so glad to share that the No More Perfect Podcast is now available on YouTube! We love finding new ways to connect with you, and we hope you enjoy the added...
Recovering from Infidelity and Broken Trust, Pt. 4 | Episode 283
https://youtu.be/X51OguaB-zY *Note from Mark and Jill: We’re so glad to share that the No More Perfect Podcast is now available on YouTube! We love finding new ways to connect with you, and we hope you enjoy the added...
Courses & Classes
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Having a coach is like having a personal trainer. Instead of working on body goals, you’ll set and meet life or career goals. If you feel overwhelmed with life, marriage, building a platform, speaking, or writing, Jill knows the path and she can guide you to success!
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