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NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES
No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.
In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.
In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:
→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage
→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades
→How to set and communicate realistic expectations
→What to do if your spouse just won’t change
→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good
Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.

ARTICLEs
A Crucial Ingredient for Change in Your Marriage | #MarriageMonday
Do you desire for transformation in your marriage? Deeper connection? Better communication? Adjustments in how you parent together? In today's #MarriageMonday, we're sharing one of the most important ingredients of change in a marriage. Mark: You know the old adage,...
What Happens at a Marriage Intensive? | Episode 104
One of the things Mark and I talk about quite a bit are the Marriage 2.0 Intensives we have the opportunity to host at our home in Normal, IL. However, one of the questions we often get is, What happens at a marriage intensive? That’s what we want to share with you on...
What Marriage Means to Me – 39 Years After I Do
When Mark and I first met and fell in love, we were walking on clouds. All it took was one look from the other and we tingled from the ends of our hair to the tips of our toes. We talked for hours about everything and about nothing. Every moment together felt like a...
The #1 Myth About Marriage Seminars | #MarriageMonday
Today I want to let you in on a little secret! I want to tell you the #1 myth people often have about marriage seminars (and honestly, marriage resources in general). But first I'll start with a story... Earlier this spring, we were teaching our No More Perfect...
Moving Beyond Your Past in Marriage with Joe and Tara Buchanan | Episode 102
Our past, our upbringing, and our experiences in life don’t stay in the past. They are carried into our marriages and affect how we operate in our relationships. This is a topic that Mark and I cover a lot in our book No More Perfect Marriages and in our coaching with...
How To Ask For What You Need | Episode 101
I have my hubby, Mark, on the podcast with me today! We are tackling an important topic, not just for married couples, but for any relationship. What’s the topic? Communication. (Can we get an amen!?) Learning how to stop assuming and start communicating was at the...
Podcast
What’s a Slow Fade and Why Does it Matter in Marriage? | Episode 30
Would you like to have a marriage that goes the distance? Are you looking for ways to deepen your connection with your spouse? Or maybe you're just feeling distance in your marriage, but you're not quite sure what to do about it? Too many marriages experience...
Thriving in Love and Money with Shaunti Feldhahn | Episode 26
Do love and money clash in your marriage? Is this just a subject you tend to avoid? If so, you're not alone! It's actually rather common for couples to experience frustrations around this topic. Today on the podcast, I'm so excited to welcome my friend Shaunti...
An Honest Conversation About Sex with Jennifer Degler | Episode 25
A heads-up: As the title of the episode suggest, we'll be talking openly about sex in this conversation. If you're around little ears in any way, you'll probably want to use headphones. 🙂 Are you and your husband at opposite ends of the spectrum when it comes to...
How to Love Someone Who’s Hard to Love | Episode 20
Do you have someone in your life who's difficult to love? It might be a sister-in-law, a sibling, a friend, neighbor, or co-worker. It could be a hard family season and your hard-to-love person is your spouse or even one of your children. When our marriage went...
Staying Together When Life Sends It’s Worst with Carol and Gene Kent, Cindy and David Lambert | Episode 19
Life is not perfect. I supposed you already know that. Because of this reality, married couples will come face to face with the imperfect parts of life. Whether it’s a child’s rebellion, infertility, chronic illness, or a financial tragedy, even couples who have been...
The Enneagram and Your Marriage with Jeff and Beth McCord | Episode 15
Are you looking for a way to better understand yourself and better understand your spouse? If so, Episode 15 of the No More Perfect Podcast is for you! If you're familiar with the Enneagram but want to better understand how it plays out in your marriage, this episode...
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