You probably said those words, or something similar, on your wedding day.
We know you 100% meant them.
But, we also know you probably didn’t expect the in-between parts of “better and worse.”
The day-to-day rut of dishes, directions, and details.
The conversations about the same old things over and over.
Where did your wedding day connection go?
When did you get a roommate instead of a lover?
Where is the fun and romance?
Couples that keep the spark going keep the curiosity alive. And not by hiding things but by intentionally having fun together and learning together!
Couples that relive their wedding day joy over and over again learn to value, accept, and even love each other's differences. They move from frustration to fascination!
Couples that grow together, stay together. But, this isn't by chance. Being intentional about growing together is the key to keeping happy.
Hi, we’re Mark & Jill Savage, authors of No More Perfect Marriages and the hosts of the No More Perfect Marriages Seminar.
We’ve been married 38 years, 28 of them happily.
During the 10 years of struggles, we had become more like business partners and even roommates.
We did all the “things” you’re supposed to do…
✔ date nights
✔ love languages
✔ spending time alone
But behind our “perfect” marriage, our hearts were miles apart.
This eventually led to a creeping separateness in our relationship, infidelity on Mark’s part, one very dark year, and a four-month separation.
As we began to put the broken pieces of our relationship back together, we began to have different kinds of conversations.
We dug deeper, listened better, and learned more about fine-tuning the inside rather than symptom-treating the outside of our relationship.
We also became life-long learners, committed to pursuing continuing education for our marriage.
We became Mark & Jill version 2.0 and committed ourselves to helping other couples “upgrade” their marriages too!
In Week 1, you’ll discover how to bring back curiosity to your marriage.
You will learn how to move from being frustrated to being fascinated with your differences (even if that sounds impossible right now!).
Moving past these frustrations will help you stay curious about your spouse and bring joy and understanding into your home.
In Week 2, you’ll understand you and your spouse’s past, as well as WHY you do some of the things you do and WHY they do some of the things they do.
You’ll also learn how your unknown relating patterns just might be keeping you stepping on each other’s toes all too often and what to do about it!
Understanding these two things leads you to a deeper, more loving connection.
In Week 3, you’ll discover the “slow fades” of marriage. (Yep that’s 5 more than we included in our No More Perfect Marriages book!)
These are things that unknowingly put distance between you little by little, eroding your connection without you even realizing it.
Understanding these slow fades, and how to combat them, will strengthen your bond and bring you closer together.
In Week 4, you’ll learn about the 8 “God Tools” you need in your marriage toolbox.
God wants your marriage to be a joyful experience! That’s why He has given you these “tools” to use to create happiness in your relationship.
Using these tools daily in your marriage will stop the fades, deepen intimacy, and increase connection.
After each session, Mark & Jill will answer the questions you have.
So you have a way to follow along and a reference for later.
You can print this downladable pledge and frame it to remember your committment.
$50 off a 90-minute marriage coaching session via Zoom with Mark & Jill.
1 FREE month of our marriage membership community so you can keep adding to your marriage toolbox!
Yes, you can take the Home Edition course without your spouse. At the end of each session, we will be encouraging couples to have some follow up conversations. You obviously won’t be able to do those however you can use the elements of those conversations (which we will teach you about during the seminar) in your everyday conversations with your spouse and you’ll still be able to improve the quality of communication in your marriage!
Some of the content will be from our No More Perfect Marriages book and some will be new information. Even if you’ve read our book, the seminar will be a refreshing reminder of what’s important in marriage!
YES! In marriage if you’re not rowing, you’re drifting. Healthy marriages need to be invested in to stay healthy. If you’re in a good place, let us help you move from good to great!
YES! You will learn so much about yourself and your spouse. You’ll also learn how to talk at a deeper level. This seminar will serve as jumper cables to your dead marriage battery.
You need internet access and something to watch the seminar on such as a smartphone, tablet, computer, or smart TV. That’s it!
Nope! This seminar is presented in video format. That means you can take the seminar in your jammies! 😉