“Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” Jesus replied: ” ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.”
This verse in the Bible, found in Matthew 22:36-39, serves as the foundation for an event that the Fuel ministry has done a couple of times here in our community. Fuel is a ministry to college students that meets on Sunday evenings. Usually about 300-400 college students gather each Sunday evening for worship and teaching. My son, Evan, is on the staff of Fuel and has participated in two “As Yourself” nights over the past year.
“As Yourself” was created out of the above verse. The idea is that the church gathers on an evening and breaks into small groups of 4 to 8 people. Those 4 to 8 people pool their financial resources—they are asked to bring a financial gift that is sacrifical in some way (maybe going without Starbucks for a month and setting the money you would spend on specialty coffee aside for this special evening.)
The groups then fan out into the community asking God who they are to bless and following God’s promptings throughout the evening. The results have been incredible—let me share some of the God stories that have happened both last fall and again tonight when they had another “As Yourself” evening:
1) A woman was being checked out at Walmart. A group walked up to her and told her they wanted to pay for her groceries. She couldn’t believe it, but they insisted. After paying for her groceries, she told them that that day was the 5 year anniversary of the death of her teenage son in a traffic accident. It had been a hard day and she felt their gift was a reassurance that God cared about her on such a hard day. Go God!
2) One group walked into the local IHOP restaurant. Once they were seated, the waitress walked up to take their order. They told her that they didn’t come to order, but rather to bless her. Then they handed her $30 and asked if they could pray for her. She agreed and then they group hugged and left. Our daughter Erica is a friend of this unassuming waitress who was in tears after the blessing she received. She told Erica, “This makes me want to go to church.” Erica invited her to go to Fuel in the next few weeks and they made arrangements to go together. Go God!
3) Evan and one guy felt led to go to a gas station. They waited for some time before a vehicle actually pulled in. But instead of pulling up to the pumps, the full-sized van pulled up to the convenience mart and a bunch of big guys piled out to run in and buy some cigarettes. Evan’s buddy said, “I’m not waiting…let’s go.”
The guys walked into the convenience store and said, “Hey, who’s van is that?” “Mine,” said one of the big guys. “Do you have a problem with it?”
Evan and his friend responded with, “Actually, I’d like to pay for your gas, if you need some.” “Yeah right,” responded the big guy. “No, seriously,” Evan and his friend responded. After a brief conversation where the boys explained that God has blessed their life and they just want to pass the blessing along, the big guys pulled their van up to the pump and got their free fill-up.
The other van guys kept saying they were all going to go home and get their cars so they could get a fill-up. Evan and his friend hung around for a little while longer waiting for another vehicle to come along. Several minutes later one of the van guys pulled up in a car and walked over to Evan and his friend. They asked if he wanted a tank of gas and he said, “No, I came to talk to you.”
He continued with, “Tonight I was going to go do something that would most likely land me back in jail. In fact, I was on my way to do that when we ran into you guys here at the gas station. But after I saw what you guys did tonight, I’ve changed my mind. You’ve reminded me that there’s still good in this world and I’ve reconsidered. I just wanted you to know.” Go God! Go God! Go God!
There’s such power in kindness! Our actions make such a difference. I don’t know about you, but this is so challenging to me. What can you and I do to be a bright light in a dark world? Let’s each commit to do something to bless someone else this week!
This is SUCH a cool idea. I’m going to watch for opportunities to do something similar. Thank you!
Wow! It’s so cool to see how such “random” acts can be used by God.
I am so touched to read these real stories! Praise God for the way He works on people’s hearts to be at the right place at the right time to minister and love others. Thanks for this wonderful idea too!
Hi Jill,
I loved, LOVED reading these stories. This is Jesus being shared one person at a time and it is life-changing. Thank you for posting these accounts of love in action. I am inspired. Hugs.
Our local Christian radio station does something similar. They pick one Friday a month as their “drive-thru difference” day. They encourage listeners to pay for the food of the person behind them in line at the local fast food place or coffee shop or whatever. They even have a letter on their website that you can hand to the clerk to give to the person you’re paying for so that you don’t even have to explain it. It’s such a neat idea.
I didn’t tell you about the greeter I know at Walmart who told me last weekend about a group of college students who came into Walmart, huddled in the front of the store and prayed together. He didn’t get the story of why they were doing that but was hugely moved. Go Fuel!
All of these stories are amazing but that last one – wow! Thanks for sharing.
Jill, I loved this post!!! I can’t wait to share it with my kids and our youth pastor! I found it on your blog somehow last week and forgot to leave you a comment. Later I was thinking that I would love to share these stories at an upcoming women’s retreat where I’ll be talking about “loving others as ourselves. I’ll mention how I read it on your blog and it’s something your church is doing? Is that okay with you?
Also, I can’t wait to read Real Moms, Real Jesus. Lysa and I were talking last night about how that will be a great book for us to carry at P31 on the web, to our events and to offer in devotions. Love the title and what I read about it on Amazon. Moms are gonna be so blessed by it!!!
Hope you’re having a great week recuperating and re-fueling after H@Home conference!
Blessings,
Renee
Renee