Welcome
to No More Perfect Marriages
ARE YOU RECOVERING FROM INFIDELITY?
THESE RESOURCES ARE FOR YOU!
Books
NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES
No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.
In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.
In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:
→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage
→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades
→How to set and communicate realistic expectations
→What to do if your spouse just won’t change
→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good
Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.
Is There Really Sex After Kids?
My Heart is Broken
I Really Messed Up
ARTICLEs
Reclaiming and Reframing Triggers: Healing from Broken Trust
Mark: When trust has been broken in a relationship, we can often encounter triggers long after reconciliation has occurred. Jill: We could be triggered by big or small things. Anything that reminds us of the betrayal can take our minds, and our hearts, right back to...
3 Areas You Need to Address In Your Marriage After Infidelity
Will things ever go back to the way they were? What led us down this path...how did we get here? What would a healing journey even look like? Jill: These were the kinds of questions I was wrestling with during my season of waiting. In the end, it was a little under a...
A 4-Step Roadmap for Healing from Infidelity and Broken Trust
“Yes, I’m having an affair, and I’m not going to stop.” It was with these words that Mark walked away from our marriage with no intention of ever returning. Infidelity and broken trust have been a significant part of our story—but they're not the end of our...
#MarriageMonday | 6 Encouraging Messages for the Person Struggling This V-Day
February is a month devoted to professing our love for one another. However, in February of 2012, Valentine’s Day was anything but enjoyable for me. Twelve days earlier, on February 4th, Mark had left, and my entire world was turned upside down. Not only that, but...
#MarriageMonday | An open letter to the spouse left to pick up the pieces…
Do you find yourself defining life by before and after the hurt? I’ve been there. When Mark walked away from our marriage, I was overwhelmed by the painful breach of trust. My heart was ripped to pieces and I wasn’t sure I would ever experience joy again. If you’re...
The Strength in Letting Go: Why Surrender Sets Us Free
After we healed our marriage from infidelity and started sharing our story, we found that we could hardly keep up with the emails from others in a similar situation as us. Over the years, we've strived to be open and honest about the dysfunction that caused our...
Podcast
When You’re the Only One Doing the Work in Marriage | Episode 300
Are you feeling worn out from doing all the heavy lifting in your marriage? You are the only spouse who is putting in the effort to listen to podcasts, read the books, and...
How To Personalize Love So Someone Feels It with Les and Leslie Parrott | Episode 299
Real connection happens when you master the personal, powerful way your partner uniquely receives love. That’s when love moves from routine to remarkable. If you are one of the 20...
Tackling Selfishness | Episode 298
Have you ever noticed a tendency in yourself to put your own wants before the needs of others? If we’re honest, that’s not an easy thing to admit. Most people don’t naturally...
The Power of Prayer in Your Marriage with Brad and Heidi Mitchell | Episode 296
Many couples believe in the power of prayer, but they struggle to practice it consistently—us included! In fact, 95% of Christian couples do not pray together. There are times...
Marriage Through the Ups and Downs of Life with Mary Beth and Steven Curtis Chapman | Episode 295
Vulnerability is very important to us. We share the dirt and the difficulties of our own marriage openly when telling our story. So when we had the opportunity to read the book,...
Untangling Anger from Your Life | Episode 294
We had a record number of Marriage Intensives at the beginning of this year! For each intensive, we host a couple at our home for a whole weekend so that we can give them our...
Courses & Classes
WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? TRY COACHING!
Having a coach is like having a personal trainer for your marriage. If you feel overwhelmed with recovering from infidelity, Mark and Jill know the path and they can guide you to success!
Free Gifts
Discover the 6 Practical Steps to Rebuilding Trust
No matter how trust has been broken, it’s possible to rebuild it and to even have a better marriage than before! This short guide gets you started in the right direction.
