How Can I Win Back My Spouse’s Trust After I Made a Big Mistake?

Dear Mark, I broke my spouse’s trust about six months ago. I know it deeply damaged my marriage, and I’m working to repair the relationship. It just feels like the progress I’m making is slow. I want my spouse to trust me again, but sometimes all they can see are my...

How to Negotiate in Relationships with Scott Tillema | Episode 319

When you hear “hostage negotiation,” the first thing to come to mind probably isn’t relationship advice. But you may be surprised to learn that the same skills professionals use to talk someone down in a crisis situation are precisely what a marriage or parenting...

Letter to the Betrayed: What Signs Tell Me I Can Trust Again?

Dear Jill, My spouse says they are sorry. I believe they actually are, but I can’t shake this nagging worry that they might break my trust again. Every small sign makes me jump to conclusions and fear the worst. What can I do to calm my doubts and trust them fully...

3 Tips for the Low Libido Wife: How to Take Sex from a Task to a Treat

“Sex…I could go the rest of my life without it!”  I said these words years ago to my husband, Mark, as we drove up to the bed-and-breakfast we had reserved for a two-day getaway. “I have no desire. I’m so tired, and I can’t seem to ever meet your needs!” After...

Becoming a Grand-Partner with Lori Wildenberg | Episode 315

One of the most beautiful gifts we can give to others is our presence in their pain. Knowing you are not alone when you are walking through something hard is so important, especially when it involves the death of a spouse. When you lose your teammate in life, it’s...

The Value of Stepping Outside Your Normal | Episode 314

With summer coming to an end, many people are thinking back fondly of the time spent on vacation. Whether it’s road-tripping to see a new city, hiking and taking in the natural beauty around us, or sitting on the beach to soak up the sun, we can all benefit from...

8 God Tools to Help Your Christian Marriage Thrive

There’s something deeply fulfilling about committing to build a life with the person you love most, grounded in a shared faith. But that doesn’t mean it’s easy! It takes work. And on the hard days, when you feel frustrated, confused, or lost, you may find...