Welcome
to No More Perfect Marriages
HAVE A HURTING MARRIAGE?
THESE RESOURCES ARE FOR YOU!
Books
NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES
No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.
In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.
In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:
→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage
→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades
→How to set and communicate realistic expectations
→What to do if your spouse just won’t change
→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good
Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.
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My Heart is Broken
I Really Messed Up
ARTICLEs
Letter to the Betrayed: What Signs Tell Me I Can Trust Again?
Dear Jill, My spouse says they are sorry. I believe they actually are, but I can’t shake this nagging worry that they might break my trust again. Every small sign makes me jump to conclusions and fear the worst. What can I do to calm my doubts and trust them fully...
3 Tips for the Low Libido Wife: How to Take Sex from a Task to a Treat
“Sex…I could go the rest of my life without it!” I said these words years ago to my husband, Mark, as we drove up to the bed-and-breakfast we had reserved for a two-day getaway. “I have no desire. I’m so tired, and I can’t seem to ever meet your needs!” After...
8 God Tools to Help Your Christian Marriage Thrive
There’s something deeply fulfilling about committing to build a life with the person you love most, grounded in a shared faith. But that doesn't mean it's easy! It takes work. And on the hard days, when you feel frustrated, confused, or lost, you may find yourself...
3 Stories of Marriage Transformation: From Hurting to Hopeful
When your marriage is going through a hard season, you can start to feel stuck. Maybe there was a big blowup after infidelity or some other form of betrayal was discovered. Maybe you bicker so much that it’s hard to remember the last time you and your...
How to Strengthen Your Church’s Marriage Ministry
During Mark’s 20 years as a pastor, he was regularly approached by couples in our church seeking marriage help. Sometimes, he knew exactly what advice and spiritual direction to offer, but at other times he felt completely out of...
How Much Should I Disclose After an Affair?
I (Mark) know firsthand that after you’ve engaged in an affair, it’s tempting to not share all of your actions with your spouse. However, this will not spare them the pain. It will INCREASE their pain because it’s very likely those indiscretions will be...
Podcast
What to Do When Somebody Doesn’t Respond to Your Efforts | Episode 316
What just happened? I came into that scenario with the best intentions, and yet somehow they still snapped at me! Doing the right thing is not a guarantee that we will get the...
The Value of Stepping Outside Your Normal | Episode 314
With summer coming to an end, many people are thinking back fondly of the time spent on vacation. Whether it's road-tripping to see a new city, hiking and taking in the natural...
An Interview with My Mom: Patsy Fleener | Episode 311
My mom, Patsy Fleener, showed me what it looks like to have a beautiful, full life. I’ve always strived to be more like her, and I can only hope to have a life as full as hers...
Moving Beyond Betrayal with Danna Demetre | Episode 310
“I’ve been seeing someone. It started a while ago. I tried to stop it, but…I didn’t.”“Do you love her?”“I don’t know. I think I might.” The words above will resonate with many who...
How Your Story Can Help Others | Episode 309
When we're trying to help others, it's natural to offer advice, share practical strategies, or point people toward helpful resources. Those things are valuable and often...
Why “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Enough in Relationships | Episode 304
Everything in life requires repair: homes, cars, computers, and most importantly, relationships. When we don’t appropriately repair our relationships from a rupture, big or small,...
Courses & Classes
WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? TRY COACHING!
Having a coach is like having a personal trainer. Instead of working on body goals, you’ll set and meet life or career goals. If you feel overwhelmed with life, marriage, building a platform, speaking, or writing, Jill knows the path and she can guide you to success!
Free Gifts
Discover the 6 Practical Steps to Rebuilding Trust
No matter how trust has been broken, it’s possible to rebuild it and to even have a better marriage than before! This short guide gets you started in the right direction.
