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to No More Perfect Marriages
HAVE A HURTING MARRIAGE?
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Books
NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES
No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.
In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.
In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:
→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage
→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades
→How to set and communicate realistic expectations
→What to do if your spouse just won’t change
→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good
Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.
Is There Really Sex After Kids?
My Heart is Broken
I Really Messed Up
ARTICLEs
3 Areas You Need to Address In Your Marriage After Infidelity
Will things ever go back to the way they were? What led us down this path...how did we get here? What would a healing journey even look like? Jill: These were the kinds of questions I was wrestling with during my season of waiting. In the end, it was a little under a...
Being an Intentional Wife: The Power of Praying for Your Husband
“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” – Philippians 4:6 ESV Prayer is a powerful thing. In the Bible, we are told to pray about everything—our worries, joys,...
A 4-Step Roadmap for Healing from Infidelity and Broken Trust
“Yes, I’m having an affair, and I’m not going to stop.” It was with these words that Mark walked away from our marriage with no intention of ever returning. Infidelity and broken trust have been a significant part of our story—but they're not the end of our...
#MarriageMonday | 6 Encouraging Messages for the Person Struggling This V-Day
February is a month devoted to professing our love for one another. However, in February of 2012, Valentine’s Day was anything but enjoyable for me. Twelve days earlier, on February 4th, Mark had left, and my entire world was turned upside down. Not only that, but...
Struggling with Sex? The Root May Be Mental, Not Physical.
Intimacy is a core part of marriage, yet it's a topic many couples struggle to navigate. And because it’s so personal, those struggles can feel isolating—like you’re the only ones dealing with them. We want you to know that isn’t true. This is one of the most common...
#MarriageMonday | 6 Tips for Connecting with Your Spouse in 2026
Happy New Year! Did you make any resolutions for 2026? Here at the Savage household, we've had our successes and failures with these kinds of goals, and we've learned a valuable lesson over the years: When we set big, pie-in-the-sky goals without a clear roadmap for...
Podcast
Marriage Through the Ups and Downs of Life with Mary Beth and Steven Curtis Chapman | Episode 295
Vulnerability is very important to us. We share the dirt and the difficulties of our own marriage openly when telling our story. So when we had the opportunity to read the book,...
Untangling Anger from Your Life | Episode 294
We had a record number of Marriage Intensives at the beginning of this year! For each intensive, we host a couple at our home for a whole weekend so that we can give them our...
Why a Business Leader Mindset is Hurting Your Marriage with Lantz Howard | Episode 293
In the business world, the ones who make it to the top are often high-achieving, ruthless, and confident. They're calculated risk-takers. All of these characteristics can help...
3 Things That Get Confused for Forgiveness with Tim Tedder | Episode 288
Forgiveness. It’s one of the most powerful tools God gives us in marriage. Yet, when infidelity shatters trust, the path forward can feel confusing. What does real forgiveness...
The Healing Journey of Marriage After Betrayal with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith | Episode 287
The chaos that betrayal can cause in a marriage is unlike anything else we experience as humans. When trust is shattered, everything feels unstable. Questions swirl. Emotions run...
Facing the Fear of Vulnerability | Episode 285
https://youtu.be/t6qmVO6apzo *Note from Mark and Jill: We’re so glad to share that the No More Perfect Podcast is now available on YouTube! We love finding new ways to connect with you, and we hope you enjoy the added...
Courses & Classes
WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? TRY COACHING!
Having a coach is like having a personal trainer. Instead of working on body goals, you’ll set and meet life or career goals. If you feel overwhelmed with life, marriage, building a platform, speaking, or writing, Jill knows the path and she can guide you to success!
Free Gifts
Discover the 6 Practical Steps to Rebuilding Trust
No matter how trust has been broken, it’s possible to rebuild it and to even have a better marriage than before! This short guide gets you started in the right direction.
