Welcome
to No More Perfect Marriages
HAVE A HURTING MARRIAGE?
THESE RESOURCES ARE FOR YOU!
Books
NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES
No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.
In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.
In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:
→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage
→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades
→How to set and communicate realistic expectations
→What to do if your spouse just won’t change
→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good
Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.
Is There Really Sex After Kids?
My Heart is Broken
I Really Messed Up
ARTICLEs
3 Stories of Marriage Transformation: From Hurting to Hopeful
When your marriage is going through a hard season, you can start to feel stuck. Maybe there was a big blowup after infidelity or some other form of betrayal was discovered. Maybe you bicker so much that it’s hard to remember the last time you and your...
How to Strengthen Your Church’s Marriage Ministry
During Mark’s 20 years as a pastor, he was regularly approached by couples in our church seeking marriage help. Sometimes, he knew exactly what advice and spiritual direction to offer, but at other times he felt completely out of...
How Much Should I Disclose After an Affair?
I (Mark) know firsthand that after you’ve engaged in an affair, it’s tempting to not share all of your actions with your spouse. However, this will not spare them the pain. It will INCREASE their pain because it’s very likely those indiscretions will be...
2 Things That Can Make or Break Your Sex Life
I think most of us would agree that sex is a core pillar of marriage. It helps a couple to build trust, deepen intimacy, and strengthen their connection with one another. Not to mention, it can be quite fun! And yet, there are so many couples who struggle to establish...
3 Success Stories from Our Marriage 2.0 Coaches and Mentors
When we were walking through our marriage crisis, several mentors advised and counseled us on how to address our hurts, repair the relationship, and eventually become the 2.0 versions of ourselves that we are now. Thanks to these mentors—both marriage counselors and...
Reclaiming and Reframing Triggers: Healing from Broken Trust
Mark: When trust has been broken in a relationship, we can often encounter triggers long after reconciliation has occurred. Jill: We could be triggered by big or small things. Anything that reminds us of the betrayal can take our minds, and our hearts, right back to...
Podcast
An Interview with My Mom: Patsy Fleener | Episode 311
My mom, Patsy Fleener, showed me what it looks like to have a beautiful, full life. I’ve always strived to be more like her, and I can only hope to have a life as full as hers...
Moving Beyond Betrayal with Danna Demetre | Episode 310
“I’ve been seeing someone. It started a while ago. I tried to stop it, but…I didn’t.”“Do you love her?”“I don’t know. I think I might.” The words above will resonate with many who...
How Your Story Can Help Others | Episode 309
When we're trying to help others, it's natural to offer advice, share practical strategies, or point people toward helpful resources. Those things are valuable and often...
Why “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Enough in Relationships | Episode 304
Everything in life requires repair: homes, cars, computers, and most importantly, relationships. When we don’t appropriately repair our relationships from a rupture, big or small,...
When You’re the Only One Doing the Work in Marriage | Episode 300
Are you feeling worn out from doing all the heavy lifting in your marriage? You are the only spouse who is putting in the effort to listen to podcasts, read the books, and...
How To Personalize Love So Someone Feels It with Les and Leslie Parrott | Episode 299
Real connection happens when you master the personal, powerful way your partner uniquely receives love. That’s when love moves from routine to remarkable. If you are one of the 20...
Courses & Classes
WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? TRY COACHING!
Having a coach is like having a personal trainer. Instead of working on body goals, you’ll set and meet life or career goals. If you feel overwhelmed with life, marriage, building a platform, speaking, or writing, Jill knows the path and she can guide you to success!
Free Gifts
Discover the 6 Practical Steps to Rebuilding Trust
No matter how trust has been broken, it’s possible to rebuild it and to even have a better marriage than before! This short guide gets you started in the right direction.
