A few weeks ago my husband’s employer changed health insurance companies. That’s a bummer when you’re in the middle of a diagnosis/treatment program like Erica is. Knowing that Mayo was not “in network” I submitted an appeal to allow her to complete the program “in network.” The difference is thousands of dollars.
Yesterday morning the insurance company finally answered the appeal with a “no.” I won’t get started on what I really think about that. But we had to make the decision yesterday to not complete the week. We met with the therapists and asked them for as much homework that they could provide. They were very accomodating.
After we made the decision to go home, I had the opportunity for a “yes” moment. “Mom, since we’re so close, do you think we could go to Mall of America?” This “I hate shopping” mom wanted very much to say no. But remembering my own “yes” mom challenge, I said yes. So today we’re heading to Mall of America. I don’t love shopping, but I love my daughter!
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Wow… that's really hard. I'm so sorry you had to make that decision. I am praying for all of you, that the Lord will continue to work healing in Erica's body anyway. I am praying that he will give you faith and hope and peace about the plans he has for your future (and Erica's). Love and blessings, Kim
May this closed door be because God has something better to offer…and I love the yes concept…it is such a challenge for me because I was so not raised that way…having to unlearn so much…so grateful for the part you've played in that process…
I am sorry about this tough decision–but God's plans are always perfect. I am so thankful He sees the big picture, when all we can see are tiny slices of life!
Love the shopping trip…though I can not relate to "not liking shopping", I can relate to the "yes" challenge so well, as you know! Glad for the opportunity for your "yes" today!
Jill, that is such a bummer. Glad you could have some "fun" though while you are up there! 🙂
Totally with you on the insurance struggles. My husband is in ministry and it has presented insurance challenges for sure! But, glad you made a priceless shopping memory with your daughter!
Jill,I am sorry to hear of the change of plans but so thankful for the "homework" that was provided. Been down the insurance path many times….it is frustrating. I took the "yes" challenge yesterday and gave our 15 year old permission to have 6 teenagers for supper and "tent" camp overnight. They had a blast and my son was so thankful. Watching for other "yes" moments….