Welcome

to No More Perfect Marriages

There’s hope and help!

ARE YOU RECOVERING FROM INFIDELITY?
THESE RESOURCES ARE FOR YOU!

Books Icon Books

NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES

No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.

In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.

In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:

→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage

→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades

→How to set and communicate realistic expectations

→What to do if your spouse just won’t change

→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good

Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.

No More Perfect Marriages Cover
Is There Really Sex After Kids? Cover

Is There Really Sex After Kids?

My Heart is Broken Book by Jill Savage

My Heart is Broken

I Really Messed Up Book by Mark Savage

I Really Messed Up

Articles Icon ARTICLEs

The Strength in Letting Go: Why Surrender Sets Us Free

The Strength in Letting Go: Why Surrender Sets Us Free

After we healed our marriage from infidelity and started sharing our story, we found that we could hardly keep up with the emails from others in a similar situation as us. Over the years, we've strived to be open and honest about the dysfunction that caused our...

“My Spouse Forgave Me. Why Does My Marriage Not Feel the Same?”

“My Spouse Forgave Me. Why Does My Marriage Not Feel the Same?”

Dear Mark and Jill,  I really messed up. I did something I shouldn't have, and in the process, I betrayed my spouse's trust. When they found out, I knew I needed to come clean and take full responsibility. I've answered their questions honestly and expressed how I...

5 Common Misconceptions About Marriage Coaching | #MarriageMonday

5 Common Misconceptions About Marriage Coaching | #MarriageMonday

Jill: We can tend to think of marriage as a fantasy love story where two people find each other, fall in love, and all the details fall into place like magic. They head off into the sunset to find their happily ever after.  Mark: The reality is quite a bit messier....

From Betrayal to Bonding

From Betrayal to Bonding

Mark and I had the opportunity to bring hope and help on the Pure Sex Podcast in this episode they titled From Betrayal to Bonding. We hope this brings you help and hope as well!  

Podcast IconPodcast

The Dog and Cat Marriage | Episode 271

The Dog and Cat Marriage | Episode 271

Have you heard about the dog and cat marriage? It might sound like a crazy concept, but it’s one that has helped us not only understand each other, but also help other couples understand how attachment styles are impacting...

The Next Day Principle | Episode 269

The Next Day Principle | Episode 269

What is the Next Day Principle? It's a practice that we have not only implemented in our own marriage and family, but it’s also something we recommend to other couples in our coaching all the time. It helps to slow down...

How to Think About Differences Differently | Episode 266

How to Think About Differences Differently | Episode 266

Have you ever met someone who was not at all like you? Maybe their thinking, mannerisms, or outlook was so different from your own that you clashed or struggled to connect with them? The old proverb, "birds of a feather flock...

Courses IconCourses & Classes

WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? TRY COACHING!

Having a coach is like having a personal trainer for your marriage. If you feel overwhelmed with recovering from infidelity, Mark and Jill know the path and they can guide you to success!

Conversation Bubbles Icon

Gifts IconFree Gifts

Discover the 6 Practical Steps to Rebuilding Trust

No matter how trust has been broken, it’s possible to rebuild it and to even have a better marriage than before! This short guide gets you started in the right direction.

Rebuilding Trust Guide