What About YOU Makes Marriage Hard?

Jill has been very sick with the stomach flu for the weekend so I get the privilege of sharing Marriage Monday with you this week. After sharing with a group of guys about our marriage challenges and the restoration we’ve experienced, I was asked the question,...

When a Woman is Addicted to Pornography

This blog may contain affiliate links. Read my disclosure here.   Today’s post is from my friend Robin Nordhues. Robin is a brave woman who has decided to share her story to help others. She’s also a speaker, blogger and workshop leader with a passion...

Triage Your Marriage Issues

Dear Jill and Mark: My husband wants to go talk to a counselor because of some anger issues he’s been feeling lately. He set up an appointment through a program offered through his work. They set him up with a female. I feel uncomfortable with this and...

Four Weeks to A Better Marriage

The FREE 4 week No More Perfect Marriages E-Challenge is here! It’s a great tool that will deepen your intimacy and strengthen your marriage! You can sign up and share with your spouse or both of you can sign up and have them delivered to your individual...

What’s Your Plan for Investing in Your Marriage in 2017?

Mark: Several years ago Jill and I took a ballroom dancing class. I admit I was NOT excited about this activity. However, I knew it was important for us to do some different activities in order to keep our relationship fresh. I knew we needed to invest intentionally...

Are You Making Your Spouse Pay a High Price for Honesty?

Jill: I’ll never forget the night I came to Mark after my evening shift at the dinner theater where I was employed. We’d been married five years and had two kids. I ran a daycare during the day while Mark went to school full-time. Then in the evenings I...

What Do I Do?

  Mark: When I was a kid, I remember vividly going to a State Park with my mom and step-dad. I ventured out on a path, took a few turns, and ended up lost. I was freaking out trying to find my way back to my family and I couldn’t find the right path home. Finally, I...

Welcome!

We live life better when we live life together. Openly authentic. Incredibly transparent. Masks removed. God often does His best work through the cracks in our lives. We’ve certainly experienced that. That’s why Mark and I hang out here in the blog world...

The Power of Grace

Mark: Jill had a rough day last Wednesday. She couldn’t sleep and so she got up in the night and decided to do a few things to the blog she’d been wanting to get done. Jill: I know just enough HTML code to get myself in trouble…and I did just that....

WE NEED YOU on the No More Perfect Launch Team!

When we think back to five years ago, there was so much pain in our marriage. Sometimes, however, the best things in life come out of the worst situations. Honestly, that’s the beauty of God’s redeeming work in our life. He brings about beauty from ashes...

It’s getting exciting!

Mark: This past Friday, Jill and I had the privilege of making group curriculum videos for the No More Perfect Marriages book. We decided to turn our renovated kitchen into a video studio to share about our renovated marriage.  We’re so excited to share this...

Get Help Sooner Rather Than Later

Mark: Since I’ve been down in my back, I’ve been enjoying a Netflix series called “Longmire.” One of the episodes I recently watched was about post military service PTSD. One of the characters made this insightful statement, “When...

Six Healthy Ways to Express Frustration

Mark: Two weeks ago, the headlines in our local paper read: “Woman shot husband over lack of attention.”  Such a sad story and an extreme way to handle frustration. Jill: Most of us have been frustrated with our spouse being distant or distracted at one time or...

Is Your Heart Open Or Closed?

Mark: I can remember the day like it was yesterday. I had determined I was leaving. I had communicated to Jill that I had closed off my heart to her months ago. I was looking forward to a soul mirage, determined to ride off into a new relationship and live happily...

What Do You Want When You’re Under The Weather?

Jill says: A week ago last Friday I had knee surgery for a torn meniscus. The first few days I was pretty much attached to my recliner and Mark served as a wonderful nurse. Just a few days ago, Mark injured his back at work. He’s been down for the entire weekend...