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NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES

No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.

In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.

In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:

→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage

→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades

→How to set and communicate realistic expectations

→What to do if your spouse just won’t change

→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good

Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.

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The Strength in Letting Go: Why Surrender Sets Us Free

The Strength in Letting Go: Why Surrender Sets Us Free

After we healed our marriage from infidelity and started sharing our story, we found that we could hardly keep up with the emails from others in a similar situation as us. Over the years, we've strived to be open and honest about the dysfunction that caused our...

How Do I Know What Baggage I Have? | #MarriageMonday

How Do I Know What Baggage I Have? | #MarriageMonday

Jill: Do you carry emotional baggage around with you? If so, you’re not alone. We all have it, and at times, it may feel like we are weighed down by the burden of dragging it around from place to place. One of the hardest truths about baggage is that it doesn’t just...

How to Keep Dating Your Spouse (in Any Season of Marriage)

How to Keep Dating Your Spouse (in Any Season of Marriage)

“Never stop dating your spouse.” You've probably heard this wisdom before and may have even tried to put it into practice. If you're not familiar with it, "dating" your spouse simply means making connection a regular priority even after you tie the knot. We always say...

20 Prayers for Your Marriage | #MarriageMonday

20 Prayers for Your Marriage | #MarriageMonday

Jill: In every marriage, prayer is one of the most powerful tools we have in our toolbox. When we pray (together or on our own), we have the opportunity to align our own desires to God's. We also have the opportunity to talk directly to God lifting up to Him whatever...

5 Common Misconceptions About Marriage Coaching | #MarriageMonday

5 Common Misconceptions About Marriage Coaching | #MarriageMonday

Jill: We can tend to think of marriage as a fantasy love story where two people find each other, fall in love, and all the details fall into place like magic. They head off into the sunset to find their happily ever after.  Mark: The reality is quite a bit messier....

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The Neurodivergent Marriage with Shawna Meek | Episode 259

The Neurodivergent Marriage with Shawna Meek | Episode 259

We all know marriage isn’t easy. Bringing together two people with different life experiences, opinions, and family backgrounds takes a whole lot of intentionality, grace, and growth. When neurological differences enter this complex equation, you need an additional...

I’m the Only One Engaging in My Marriage… Help! | Episode 257

I’m the Only One Engaging in My Marriage… Help! | Episode 257

We are excited to have another listener-submitted question to discuss! This question really hit home with us because it resonated with obstacles we've recently overcome in our own lives. It reminded us of the powerful emotional growth and healing that can be achieved...

What Does It Mean to Push Accountability? | Episode 255

What Does It Mean to Push Accountability? | Episode 255

We’re back for another special conversation, this time about the topic of accountability. When most people think of accountability, they imagine someone asking them tough questions—almost like it's a police interrogation and they're in the hot seat. The problem with...

Stronger Than Stress with Barb Roose | Episode 254

Stronger Than Stress with Barb Roose | Episode 254

Whether you are in a prolonged period of stress or just having a bad day, everyone experiences times of stress. Our jobs can be stressful and full of pressure-filled deadlines. Our family budget may be tight, and we are worried about making ends meet. Or our family...

Are You Hinting and Hoping? | Episode 253

Are You Hinting and Hoping? | Episode 253

If you're listening on the day this releases, then tomorrow (6/25/2025) is our 42nd wedding anniversary! We can’t believe that it’s already been more than four decades since we walked down the aisle to say our "I do's".  Would you believe that our first big argument...

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WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? TRY COACHING!

Having a coach is like having a personal trainer. Instead of working on body goals, you’ll set and meet life or career goals. If you feel overwhelmed with life, marriage, building a platform, speaking, or writing, Jill knows the path and she can guide you to success!

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