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NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES
No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.
In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.
In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:
→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage
→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades
→How to set and communicate realistic expectations
→What to do if your spouse just won’t change
→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good
Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.
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ARTICLEs
Marriage Gift Guide: Gifts to Get Your Spouse & Your Marriage This Holiday Season | #MarriageMonday
Mark: With the Thanksgiving weekend behind us, we officially find ourselves in the Christmas season. There's just something about this time of year: The tree is up, the decorations are out, and everything just feels a little extra cozy. Jill: We've had to shift our...
How To View Marriage Challenges Through the Lens of Gratitude | #MarriageMonday
The holidays can bring out conflict within a marriage. With both Thanksgiving and Christmas right around the corner, how can we approach that conflict with a lens of gratitude? In today's #MarriageMonday, we're exploring five steps to shift our perspective of...
The Masks That Mar Our Marriages | #MarriageMonday
As we release this #MarriageMonday, it's Halloween. Pumpkins are being carved and many kids and even families are excited to wear their themed costumes to go trick-or-treating. (If you’re into those sorts of things, of course.) As spider webs embellish the houses on...
Mind the Gap: 4 Common Gaps In Marriages After the Kids Leave | #MarriageMonday
Several years ago, I had the opportunity to travel to London, England. While there, I used the Underground (subway) for all my transportation. Every time I would get on or off the Underground, a voice would come on and say, “Mind the gap. Mind the gap.” I soon...
Giving Your Spouse the Gift of Being Themselves | #MarriageMonday
For this week's #MarriageMonday, we are looking at the God-tool of acceptance, one of the God-tools we cover in No More Perfect Marriages. When we use our God-tool of acceptance, it's actually a gift to our spouse because we're letting them be themselves. Let's...
Are You Giving Energy to Your Marriage? 8 Questions to Ask Yourself | #MarriageMonday
Did you know that the divorce rate is almost 50%? Seriously. That means that nearly half of all marriages end in divorce. In today's short #MarriageMonday, we're identifying 8 questions you can ask to start putting more energy towards saving your marriage than ending...
Podcast
The Elements of Transformation | Episode 197
Mark is back with me on the podcast today to help answer a question we hear often: “What makes the difference in people who are able to overcome difficult things?" This could be in regard to marriages that are restored or...
Becoming Unoffendable with Brant Hansen | Episode 196
What do you do when you are offended? Do you quickly let it go, or do you sit and ruminate on it? If you, like most people, tend to do the latter, it can create bitterness, resentment, and pent-up anger in your life and in...
The Power of Our Words | Episode 191
I’m happy to have my husband join me for this episode! It’s been a little while since Mark and I shared a conversation on the podcast, and today we’re talking about the power of our words. If we fully realized just how...
Navigating Conflict with Donna Jones | Episode 186
Conflict…it’s one of our favorite topics in the world. Just kidding! Most of us try to steer clear of conflict, and those of us who embrace it don’t always handle it in the healthiest ways. We’ve certainly all had moments...
What to Do When Waiting with Tiarra Atkinson | Episode 185
If you’ve heard our marriage story, then you likely know that I believed our marriage could be restored even when Mark had checked out and was pursuing another relationship. This is often referred to as “standing for your...
How to Forgive Yourself | Episode 184
We want to talk with you about a question Mark and I get asked often. People really struggle with finding an answer or finding resolve to this question: How do I forgive myself? Many times, they would say, I can’t, or I...
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