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NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES
No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.
In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.
In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:
→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage
→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades
→How to set and communicate realistic expectations
→What to do if your spouse just won’t change
→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good
Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.


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How to Start Dreaming with Your Spouse Again | #MarriageMonday
On today's #MarriageMonday, we're diving into why it's important to dream with your spouse and how to have future-focused conversations without conflict. Mark: I'm a dreamer. I always have been. I love to think about what "could be." Jill: I've always been more of a...
What Do I Do When I’m Not in the Mood?
It's no secret, but sex can easily become one of the biggest sources of conflict in marriage. Do you see that in your marriage? Maybe you feel like your differing sex drives are exhausting, Maybe you feel like all your spouse thinks about is sex. Maybe you feel like...
Spouse in the House: Navigating Increased Togetherness with Cynthia Ruchti | Episode 75
Have you found yourself spending a lot more time with your spouse than you're used to? You're not alone! And if that's your circumstances, this episode is for you. In the last few years, many of us have found ourselves experiencing a lot more togetherness due to one...
An Evening Routine for a Connected Marriage | #MarriageMonday
What is your evening routine like? Is connecting as a couple something you intentionally do? Last week, I shared about reaching your goals for the New Year. Today I want to share about a goal I hope you have in mind for this year: Increasing connection in your...
A Word for the New Year: Intentionality
Happy New Year! Mark and I are spending the start of this year down in Florida with my mom, and it has been such a special start to the year. Today, I want to talk about intentionality. Every January, the focus is goal-setting for so many of us. We set goals and...
Podcast
How to Love Someone Who’s Hard to Love | Episode 20
Do you have someone in your life who's difficult to love? It might be a sister-in-law, a sibling, a friend, neighbor, or co-worker. It could be a hard family season and your hard-to-love person is your spouse or even one of your children. When our marriage went...
Staying Together When Life Sends It’s Worst with Carol and Gene Kent, Cindy and David Lambert | Episode 19
Life is not perfect. I supposed you already know that. Because of this reality, married couples will come face to face with the imperfect parts of life. Whether it’s a child’s rebellion, infertility, chronic illness, or a financial tragedy, even couples who have been...
The Enneagram and Your Marriage with Jeff and Beth McCord | Episode 15
Are you looking for a way to better understand yourself and better understand your spouse? If so, Episode 15 of the No More Perfect Podcast is for you! If you're familiar with the Enneagram but want to better understand how it plays out in your marriage, this episode...
Why You Need To Forgive Every Single Day | Episode 9
Have you ever learned the value of forgiving in real time? It can be a game-changer for your relationships. Most of the time we think of forgiveness as something needed for big things that break trust. On this episode of the No More Perfect Podcast my husband and I...
How to Rebuild Trust in a Relationship | Episode 6
How do you rebuild trust when it's broken? In this episode, Mark and I tackle the question we're asked ALL. THE. TIME. We're digging into rebuilding trust in a variety of relationships...not just marriage. After all, we deal with broken trust in parent/child...
Lessons Learned From An Imperfect Marriage | Episode 3
Every marriage has a story. Ours is no exception. I was so excited to sit down with Mark to share a bit about our journey as well as how we went from Mark and Jill 1.0 to Mark and Jill 2.0. There's no denying that over the years we have had lots of ups and downs! One...
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