Welcome
to No More Perfect Marriages
ARE YOU RECOVERING FROM INFIDELITY?
THESE RESOURCES ARE FOR YOU!
Books
NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES
No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.
In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.
In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:
→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage
→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades
→How to set and communicate realistic expectations
→What to do if your spouse just won’t change
→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good
Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.
Is There Really Sex After Kids?
My Heart is Broken
I Really Messed Up
ARTICLEs
What Is Your Response to Conflict?
Mark: Conflict handled without care can bring out the worst in us. Unless we're intentional about responding rather than reacting, we can end up with a mess to clean up. Jill: It's rare that we both haven't contributed to the mess in some way. So we both usually have...
The Top Books That Influenced Our Marriage
Jill: We're often asked what the top books are that we read for our marriage. To be honest, initially I was the reader in the relationship. I would summarize to Mark what I'd read. In fact, I actually wrote my Is There Really Sex After Kids book that way! Mark wrote...
Six Healthy Ways to Express Frustration
Mark: Two weeks ago, the headlines in our local paper read: “Woman shot husband over lack of attention.” Such a sad story and an extreme way to handle frustration. Jill: Most of us have been frustrated with our spouse being distant or distracted at one time or...
The Myth of “I Don’t Love You Anymore”
It's happened again. Yesterday we learned of another family that has been broken up because one person in the marriage says, "I don't love you anymore." There's a common misconception that married couples will always "feel" love for one another. Today's Marriage...
Don’t Go Relivin’ What You Have Forgiven
Jill says: Even when you're moving forward, it's easy to want to bring up the past. Mark says: It's the human side of us that wants to throw something back into play that we settled in our heart or relationship a while ago. Jill says: Just this past week, when Mark...
Marriage Monday: Determine Your Love Style and Create a Deeper More Satisfying Relationship with Your Spouse and Kids
Today's Marriage Monday is brought to you by Milan and Kay Yerkovich. The Yerkovich's book How We Love has been a complete game-changer in our marriage over the past year. It's also changed how we parent and tune into our kids' emotional needs. Now let's hear from...
Podcast
Why You Need To Forgive Every Single Day | Episode 9
Have you ever learned the value of forgiving in real time? It can be a game-changer for your relationships. Most of the time we think of forgiveness as something needed for big things that break trust. On this episode of the No More Perfect Podcast my husband and I...
How to Rebuild Trust in a Relationship | Episode 6
How do you rebuild trust when it's broken? In this episode, Mark and I tackle the question we're asked ALL. THE. TIME. We're digging into rebuilding trust in a variety of relationships...not just marriage. After all, we deal with broken trust in parent/child...
Lessons Learned From An Imperfect Marriage | Episode 3
Every marriage has a story. Ours is no exception. I was so excited to sit down with Mark to share a bit about our journey as well as how we went from Mark and Jill 1.0 to Mark and Jill 2.0. There's no denying that over the years we have had lots of ups and downs! One...
Choosing Compassion | How I Stopped Being a Buck Up Wife and Mom | Episode 1
I'm super excited to be launching the No More Perfect Podcast! Episode 1 is now available and I'm pulling back the curtain on a place where I've had a big learning curve in my life. As a mom and wife, I am always learning and growing. One of the places that I have...
Courses & Classes
WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? TRY COACHING!
Having a coach is like having a personal trainer for your marriage. If you feel overwhelmed with recovering from infidelity, Mark and Jill know the path and they can guide you to success!
Free Gifts
Discover the 6 Practical Steps to Rebuilding Trust
No matter how trust has been broken, it’s possible to rebuild it and to even have a better marriage than before! This short guide gets you started in the right direction.
