Welcome
to No More Perfect Marriages
HAVE A HURTING MARRIAGE?
THESE RESOURCES ARE FOR YOU!
Books
NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES
No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.
In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.
In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:
→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage
→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades
→How to set and communicate realistic expectations
→What to do if your spouse just won’t change
→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good
Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.
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ARTICLEs
#MarriageMonday | 3 Tools We Teach Every Day as Marriage Coaches
As of January 2026, we will have been marriage coaches for 9 years. One of our favorite parts about this work is that the tools we teach our clients have been shaped from and refined by our real experiences. Many of them are strategies that helped us transform our own...
#MarriageMonday | 6 Intimacy Inhibitors that Could Be Impacting Your Sex Life
Everyone has emotional and relational baggage. We carry it around with us everywhere and bring it with us into marriage. While there’s no shame in having baggage, it’s important to take the time to consider how the behaviors we’ve picked up over the years could be...
#MarriageMonday | 5 Prayers for Your Husband
Prayer is such a powerful work. When it comes to your marriage, standing in the gap for your husband through prayer is one of the most important things you’ll ever do. Whether your marriage is on the rocks, smooth sailing, or somewhere in between, I can’t encourage...
#MarriageMonday | An open letter to the spouse left to pick up the pieces…
Do you find yourself defining life by before and after the hurt? I’ve been there. When Mark walked away from our marriage, I was overwhelmed by the painful breach of trust. My heart was ripped to pieces and I wasn’t sure I would ever experience joy again. If you’re...
#MarriageMonday | Why Choosing Acceptance Over Expectations Opens the Door to Growth
How come I’m always the one planning what we do for date night? They never initiate deep conversation. They said they were sorry, but they aren’t improving. They never help out enough around the house. Things just don’t seem to be getting any better… Do any of these...
5 Ways to Help Another Couple in Their Marriage | #MarriageMonday
Marriage is hard work! As we like to say, we’ve been married for 42 years—32 of them happily. Throughout that time, we’ve been through quite a few highs and lows, each and every one of which taught us something. One of the reasons we started coaching other...
Podcast
How to Avoid the 5 R’s that Destroy Relationships with PeggySue Wells | Episode 275
This week’s episode will look a little bit different, as we are resharing one of our top five episodes of all time with you! With the holiday season beginning, there will be countless opportunities for relationships to be...
How Men Can Transform Their Marriages with Roy Wooten | Episode 272
When we stand at the altar and say “I do,” our eyes are filled with stars. We're certain we have found happily ever after. After the wedding day, we find out that this marriage stuff is way more complicated than we...
The Dog and Cat Marriage | Episode 271
Have you heard about the dog and cat marriage? It might sound like a crazy concept, but it’s one that has helped us not only understand each other, but also help other couples understand how attachment styles are impacting...
The Next Day Principle | Episode 269
What is the Next Day Principle? It's a practice that we have not only implemented in our own marriage and family, but it’s also something we recommend to other couples in our coaching all the time. It helps to slow down...
Surrendered Sexuality with Dr. Juli Slattery | Episode 268
As Christians, we are often unclear about God’s views on sex and intimacy. It can be a struggle to make sense of our temptations, shame, brokenness, longings, or desires. What is more, Christian churches and families are...
Finding Community in the Midst of Your Pain with Toni Collier | Episode 267
When brokenness strikes, it can feel impossible to know what to say or how to ask for help. Whether that brokenness is due to hard circumstances, an unexpected diagnosis, or the pain of a relationship ending, when we are...
Courses & Classes
WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? TRY COACHING!
Having a coach is like having a personal trainer. Instead of working on body goals, you’ll set and meet life or career goals. If you feel overwhelmed with life, marriage, building a platform, speaking, or writing, Jill knows the path and she can guide you to success!
Free Gifts
Discover the 6 Practical Steps to Rebuilding Trust
No matter how trust has been broken, it’s possible to rebuild it and to even have a better marriage than before! This short guide gets you started in the right direction.
