The Secret To Taking Your Marriage Deeper

Mark: Yesterday Jill and I left our youngest at college in downtown Chicago for his last semester. It’s hard to believe he’s finishing up and getting ready to fully move into adulthood. As we were driving home from Chicago–a two-hour drive for...

A Mom Study You Can Do In Your Jammies!

Being a mom is hard, but it doesn’t have to be lonely. Need to find your mom tribe? Looking for inspiration in building your mom community? Want to sharpen your relationship skills in order to take care of the friendships you have? I’ve got an opportunity...

What Weeding Taught Me About Taking Care of My Health

Most mornings I spend an hour or so weeding before I take my shower and get ready for my day. I love being out in the quiet of the morning. It’s my time with God, time to think, and my opportunity to get my hands dirty. God teaches me so many lessons while...

CEU’s for Marriage?

Mark: Last week was a week of rest for Jill and I. We spent time enjoying Lake Michigan along with Jill’s parents. It was one of the most restful weeks I’ve had in a long time. Jill: It was a four hour drive to Holland, Michigan and a five hour drive home...

Come join me?

Summer has been wonderfully relaxing! My speaking schedule almost comes to a complete halt in the summer. That’s completely fine with me. With Fall right around the corner, my speaking schedule will ramp up once again. And that’s completely fine with me,...

The Most Complete College Packing Checklist!

It was 15 years ago that I packed up my first kid for college. This month will be my last time I’ll do that job. I’m definitely feeling all the feels with that! One day I’m excited for the new season ahead. After all, the last kid will be off the...

What Weeding Taught Me About Parenting

I love to weed.  Sounds crazy, doesn’t it? There’s just something about weeding that I find satisfying. Maybe it’s the sense of accomplishment. Maybe it’s playing in the dirt. Maybe it’s being in the midst of God’s creation. Maybe...

What Are You (Wrongly) Assigning Meaning To In Your Marriage?

Mark: We do it all the time. Jill: We see things through our own experiences, history, temperament, personality, and family of upbringing perspective and we determine what someone else means with their words or body language. Mark: The only problem is that the meaning...

When He Leaves

Three times this week I’ve received an email or Facebook message from someone who has a friend whose husband has left. Because I’ve walked through that horrible experience, each of these women are asking, “How can I help my friend?” It is truly...

The Power of What You DON’T Say

Mark: Jill and I have the privilege of doing quite a bit of marriage mentoring. While many of those conversations pave the way to powerful breakthroughs, sometimes those conversations are tough ones and words can fly carelessly. Jill: The Bible says that our tongue...