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to No More Perfect Marriages
HAVE A HURTING MARRIAGE?
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Books
NO MORE PERFECT MARRIAGES
No marriage is perfect. But every marriage can get better.
In No More Perfect Marriages, Mark and Jill speak honestly about their struggles, how they came back from betrayal, and the principles keeping their marriage strong today. They guide you in everything you need to know to kick the Perfection Infection right out and return to intimacy.
In their warm, honest, personable style, Jill and Mark discuss:
→How the Perfection Infection invades a marriage–even a good marriage
→How to detect and correct the Seven Slow Fades
→How to set and communicate realistic expectations
→What to do if your spouse just won’t change
→How to guard your marriage from the Perfection Infection for good
Hurting marriages can heal, and good marriages can become great. It takes work, yes, but No More Perfect Marriages will give you the insights, language, and roadmap you need for the journey. So start today.
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My Heart is Broken
I Really Messed Up
ARTICLEs
4 Principles for Our Words in Marriage | #MarriageMonday
Jill: Welcome back to #MarriageMonday! Today, we are taking a look at the power of our words. Our words are powerful, and that power can be used both positively and destructively. When Mark and I think of our marriage before crisis and our marriage after crisis, we’ve...
The Gift of Selflessness
Mark: Saturday night Jill and I watched the movie Call of the Wild with Harrison Ford. We were both surprised that the animals in the movie weren't real but rather CGI (Computer Generated Imagery). Jill asked me about ten minutes in if I was enjoying it. I said,...
When Anger Hurts Your Marriage
Jill: Over the past two months, we've found that anger is a recurring theme with many of the couples we are coaching. For some it's always been there and for others, the quarantine life is increasing or introducing anger. Mark: In our early years, my anger was...
What Is Your Response to Conflict?
Mark: Conflict handled without care can bring out the worst in us. Unless we're intentional about responding rather than reacting, we can end up with a mess to clean up. Jill: It's rare that we both haven't contributed to the mess in some way. So we both usually have...
The Top Books That Influenced Our Marriage
Jill: We're often asked what the top books are that we read for our marriage. To be honest, initially I was the reader in the relationship. I would summarize to Mark what I'd read. In fact, I actually wrote my Is There Really Sex After Kids book that way! Mark wrote...
When An Introvert And An Extrovert Marry
Mark: I’m an extrovert. I’m refueled by being with people Jill: I’m an introvert. I’m refueled by being alone. Mark: This has caused more than a few challenges in our nearly 35 years of marriage. Jill: Initially, we were drawn to our differences. I loved how Mark was...
Podcast
When Life Feels Like More Than You Can Handle with Barb Roose | Episode 7
Does life ever feel like it’s more than you can handle? Do you realize that hard seasons tend to be where we fight to maintain control? Do you know that learning to “let go” will actually bring about better blessings...
How to Rebuild Trust in a Relationship | Episode 6
How do you rebuild trust when it's broken? In this episode, Mark and I tackle the question we're asked ALL. THE. TIME. We're digging into rebuilding trust in a variety of relationships...not just marriage. After all, we...
Lessons Learned From An Imperfect Marriage | Episode 3
Every marriage has a story. Ours is no exception. I was so excited to sit down with Mark to share a bit about our journey as well as how we went from Mark and Jill 1.0 to Mark and Jill 2.0. There's no denying that over the...
Choosing Compassion | How I Stopped Being a Buck Up Wife and Mom | Episode 1
I'm super excited to be launching the No More Perfect Podcast! Episode 1 is now available and I'm pulling back the curtain on a place where I've had a big learning curve in my life. As a mom and wife, I am always learning...
Courses & Classes
WANT PERSONALIZED HELP? TRY COACHING!
Having a coach is like having a personal trainer. Instead of working on body goals, you’ll set and meet life or career goals. If you feel overwhelmed with life, marriage, building a platform, speaking, or writing, Jill knows the path and she can guide you to success!
Free Gifts
Discover the 6 Practical Steps to Rebuilding Trust
No matter how trust has been broken, it’s possible to rebuild it and to even have a better marriage than before! This short guide gets you started in the right direction.
